Saturday, June 1, 2013

Family Business Meeting #3 Minutes (2013-06-01)

FBM 3

Present: Andy, Jams, Tim, Alex, Becca, Eliza, Peter, Robb, Vivian, Grace
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Procedure: Testimony, then vote, then next testimony, etc.
All positions are council positions, but the “essential council” is President, Secretary, and Large Group coordinator and to some extent event coordinator. Other positions are available to be taken but not essential.

President
-          Robb is nominated
-          Superchicken. Gets a T-shirt (but has to give it away to the next president)
-          Spiritual attacks on the fellowship go through the president.
-          Robb says
o   He wants to be on council, but says he wouldn’t be very good at a job like secretary which requires some organization and administrative responsibility.
o   The President gets to think about the overarching issues and the direction of the fellowship
o   Robb has already set the CCF precedent.
o   He cares about the job and feels that it’s worth doing.
o   This past year as president, Robb did a lot of lawsuit stuff. He’s happy to be beyond that in order to focus on other aspects of the fellowship.
o   Before last year’s FBM, when Robb was about to become president for the first time, he felt some of the spiritual attacks mentioned above.
o   Future. Robb wants to focus on:
§  Inviting people to CCF events.
§  Meeting with council members one-on-one.
§  Supporting the rest of council.
§  Setting aside time to pray for CCF and Caltech
§  Thinking hard about what the fellowship needs and how to bring that about.
§  Not getting bogged down with schoolwork so that nothing happens with CCF.
o   Question for Robb: Do you have any particular spiritual gifts?
§  According to feedback from others, a presence of peace. Being able to bring peace to situations by being there.
o   Question for Robb: Are you currently in a discipleship?
§  With Tim. Not clear who is the disciple and who the disciple.
§  Hopes to be in a discipleship with Peter.
o   Give Robb feedback whenever you have some.
-          Robb is now the CCF president.
-          Traditional to pond the new president. Hasn’t been done in the past couple of years. We should do it.

Large group coordinator
-          Peter and Andy nominated, with Andy nominated as co-coordinator
-          Peter says
o   23, alum, coming back for grad school in the fall
o   Became really committed to Christian walk as a smore after reading the bible through as a frosh.
o   Member of Hill Community Church
o   In discipleships with Luke and Stephen
o   Plans to meet regularly with Skippy
o   Plan for LG
§  Goals
·         Reintegrate grad students
o   They make good discipleship partners for undergrads
·         Emphasize discipleships, community building, loving each other as Christians
·         Ministry to campus, reaching out
o   Once our core community has been well-established
·         Have LG serve as good structural support for small groups
§  Will start in July or August to make a baseline to work from
§  Concurrently in late summer good to know what new frosh we have so we can stalk them
§  Personally invite new frosh to LG and others
§  Structure of LG
·         Aiming for 5 hours of prep per week
o   Reading a book every week is too much!
·         Worship for first 30 mins, then 1-2 minute prayer
·         Leader introduces passage for 10 mins
·         Break into discussions in smaller groups for 20 mins
o   Groups will be designed to mix people, not keep people among their close friends all the time
·         Get back into big group for final messages
·         Keep LG to 1 hour after worship
·         Snacks, etc. after closing in prayer
o   Question for Peter: What plans do you have to invite outside speakers to LG?
§  LG is flexible. Peter’s plan is what will work best for him. No specific plan for inviting outside speakers, but will talk with Sam and Tim about this since they have invited people.
§  Pastor Nathan is cool and people have enjoyed him coming.
§  1-2 invited speakers/term.
§  Luke and Skippy are perennially invited speakers.
o   Peter will shave his beard so he doesn’t look too scary.
-          Andy says
o   His level of involvement will depend on how demanding his schoolwork is.
§  He expects next year to be less rough than this year.
o   He likes Peter’s plan for LG.
o   Has gotten into apologetics recently
§  Something he might be willing to talk about at LG, especially as we get to the outreach part of Peter’s plan.
§  Apologetics can be helpful for evangelizing and solidifying one’s own stance.
o   Outreach
§  Not Andy’s strong point.
§  Would be a learning experience for him.
o   Fine with presenting or finding speakers.
o   Spiritual gift: procrastination! :P
§  Tim says: spiritual gifts are not necessarily things you’re good at, but rather things you care about.
o   Is fine with attending council meetings and generally being a part of council.
o   Question for Andy: Do you feel obligated to or do you want to or where on this continuum do you lie?
§  He knows he can refuse, so it’s really more that he wants to.
o   Suggestion: Andy and Peter meet up weekly.
o   Peter is happy with all the help he can get!
-          We voted and now Peter is the new LG coordinator with Andy in a supportive role.

Secretary
-          Grace says
o   On the I-have-to vs. I-want-to spectrum, Grace is very much on the I-have-to part.
o   She feels that most people don’t enjoy note taking, but she does.
o   She cares about us and wants to contribute in a way that is not a huge burden for her but still helps the fellowship.
o   The Head UCC position is very burdensome for her. She’s an introvert and the job assumes she likes talking to people.
§  The Area Coordinator wants her to stay with this position but is willing to help her out a bunch.
§  There’s no one else to take the position so she feels like she has to do this too.
§  The rest of us need to support Grace in this role.
o   Grace is afraid there will be no secretary without her.
o   The basic responsibilities of secretary aren’t that much.
§  Grace has been able to attend council meetings this year so she feels she can do that next year too.
o   Grace is in a discipleship with Jessica Hsu and talks with Vivian a lot too.
o   Grace will have some time to think about things this summer.
-          We voted and Grace is the new secretary.

Event accomplisher and retreat coordinator
-          Eliza says
o   She’s excited about event accomplisher and thinks she has to take the retreat coordinator position because no one else is nominated.
o   Peter says he’ll have a car next year so he and Vivian can help buy food and stuff
o   There is concern about the stress burden on Eliza given how blue slip milkshakes has gone this past year.
§  Retreats can be scheduled far in advance which helps to relieve some of the stress.
§  Blue slip milkshakes
·         Running it has improved with experience
o   Peter was thinking it’s good to set all dates for events at the beginning of the year.
§  Eliza agrees that that will help her a lot and make things easier in general.
-          We voted and Eliza is the new event accomplisher and retreat coordinator

Small group coordinator and discipleship coordinator
-          Jessica says
o   Small group coordinator
§  She’s really enjoyed Avery small group this year. It’s kept up large attendance.
§  Wants to reach out through small groups to invite people to CCF events.
o   Discipleship coordinator
§  Not sure what the position includes right now, but is willing to take on that job.
o   Question: Both jobs involve a lot of talking to people and emailing people.
§  Jessica likes emailing people, but talking to people is a bit more difficult for her.
§  Talking is important though.
o   Question: How does your workload look next year?
§  Core, ACM 95, orgo and Chinese
o   Are you in a discipleship?
§  Meets with Lisa and Audrey at 7:30 every morning, which is kind of like a discipleship.
§  Vivian and Jessica plan to meet more.
o   Favorite food?
§  Chocolate
-          We voted. Jessica is the new small group coordinator and discipleship coordinator.

Dig-in dude
-          Vivian says
o   Given her schedule she hasn’t been able to attend small groups regularly.
o   Dig-ins are important to her.
o   Something she can reasonably commit to next year.
o   Has enjoyed preparing dig-ins with Grace this past year.
o   Likes discussing scripture.
o   Question: Do you have the time for it?
§  She definitely wants to be on council.
§  This is something important to her and allows her to be a part of council.
§  She will make time for it.
o   Question: anything you would change about dig-ins?
§  She likes the format this past term the best. Less formal, less prepared, more discussion and free form.
§  More discussion is better.
o   Question: are you willing to be buried in sand on preterm retreat?
§  Yes, if someone emails her beforehand. J
-          We voted. Vivian is the new dig in dude.

Frosh prayer coordinator
-          Alex and Lisa nominated
o   People who want to see frosh prayer continue happening can make it happen. Does not need to be one person being at frosh prayer every weekday. Involves a lot of delegation.
-          People have regularly showed up this year which is good.
-          As frosh prayer coordinator Vivian talked with Jessica and Lisa about it to make it happen.
-          Alex says
o   He enjoyed frosh prayer this past year.
§  Helps to distress.
§  Talking with other people.
o   He thought an extended period of prayer would be a cool thing. Like a few hours plus.
§  Anyone in CCF could be involved. Around the clock praying, tag-team style.
o   Frosh prayer is what brought him to CCF.
o   He still wants to go to frosh prayer besides just coordinating it.
-          Renaming frosh prayer to pond prayer is something to consider.
-          Having a discipleship pair lead for a specific date is a good idea. Pairs in general are a good idea.
-          Lisa is at a graduation right now but she wants to be involved.
-          We voted and Alex and Lisa are the new frosh prayer coordinators.

Wisdom for new council:
-          As a reminder to the frosh and everyone else, remember that you can change things. If you want to change something, ask upperclassmen why it is the way it is and incorporate those reasons into your decision to change.
-          It’s ok to disagree.
-          Mandate from scripture is to listen to your brother, not necessarily agree.
-          If you have some free time, schedule a social thing! Help build community. Jonathan offers board games and will be working at Caltech 20 hours a week this summer. He will have a lot of free time. Remember to do life together.

Grace will send out an email reminding old council and new council that we’re all meeting at 1PM this Friday.

A bit of an agenda for the new council meeting:

-          Diversifying names
-          Move LG?
o   There are some conflicts with Monday nights. Tuesday might be better.
§  It used to be that no classes happened on Monday nights and glee club met from 8 to 9, so LG started at 9:15.
·         Clearly none of this is true anymore. Glee clubs meet from 7 to like 11 so a conflict is unavoidable.
-          Preterm retreat
-          What to do over the summer
-          Vision casting

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